by Dan Savage
I'm a 24-year-old gay woman living in a large midwestern city. My 26-year-old girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we just got a house together a few months ago. Believe it or not, things are going great! Even though our sex drives are vastly different, we enjoy a loving, satisfying level of physical intimacy.However, it took us a while to get to this point. Her sex drive is much lower than mine, so I've had to step up in our relationship and become the pr
I'm a 24-year-old gay woman living in a large midwestern city. My 26-year-old girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we just got a house together a few months ago. Believe it or not, things are going great! Even though our sex drives are vastly different, we enjoy a loving, satisfying level of physical intimacy.However, it took us a while to get to this point. Her sex drive is much lower than mine, so I've had to step up in our relationship and become the pr