What do you do when it's what you want?by Dan Savage
I'm a thirty-three-year-old gay man. I'm probably painfully conventional in most aspects of my life, but I don't really know how to articulate what I want in a relationship or exactly how to seek it out: I want an abusive relationship. And no, I don't mean "rough me up in the sack," and I don't mean I want a kinky relationship (no real kinks to speak of on my end). I want a relationship where I am taken advantage of, manipulated, verbally abus
I'm a thirty-three-year-old gay man. I'm probably painfully conventional in most aspects of my life, but I don't really know how to articulate what I want in a relationship or exactly how to seek it out: I want an abusive relationship. And no, I don't mean "rough me up in the sack," and I don't mean I want a kinky relationship (no real kinks to speak of on my end). I want a relationship where I am taken advantage of, manipulated, verbally abus